The Ace and Aro Relationship Guide: Making It Work in Friendship, Love, and Sex

Gr 9 Up–The book offers a comprehensive guide to relationships, seamlessly blending practical advice with thoughtful insights tailored to the asexual spectrum community. The first section delves into essential relationship tools, emphasizing the importance of consent and communication—valuable for anyone, though particularly relevant to aspec individuals. The second section addresses the practicalities of relationships for aspec people, exploring various types of connections and providing universally applicable advice. One of the standout aspects is the book’s readability. Though aimed at teens, it remains engaging for adults. The author, an asexuality educator, candidly addresses the societal challenges faced by aspec people, emphasizing that these issues are not their fault—a crucial message for young readers. Additionally, the inclusion of red flags and abuse awareness is commendable, ensuring readers are equipped to recognize and respond to unhealthy behaviors. Infused with the author’s personal experiences and humor, the book is both insightful and enjoyable. It covers key themes such as intersectionality, autonomy, and healthy boundaries, offering clear explanations, examples, and reflection prompts.