We Need to Talk About Divorce: An IMPORTANT book About Separation, Stepfamilies, and Feeling Heard

Gr 6-9–A nonfiction work that tackles a difficult topic with honesty, empathy, and inclusivity. Aimed primarily at upper middle school readers, the book offers a thorough, visually appealing exploration of what divorce can look like in today’s diverse world; and more importantly, what it feels like for the kids living through it. One of the most impressive aspects of the book is its representation. Both the text and art make a clear effort to depict a wide range of families and household setups so that readers have a chance to see themselves. The book highlights how different cultural customs and traditions might be celebrated in new ways post-divorce. Scharff weaves in advice and reflections from real children of divorce, which provides an added layer of depth and authenticity. Hearing from peers allows young readers to feel less alone and more empowered. Parents are also directly addressed and offered grounded advice on how to behave responsibly during such a sensitive time, with Scharff affirming that it’s okay for kids to express their needs and opinions. Artistically, the book shines. Its format is reminiscent of a graphic novel with colorful characters, speech bubbles, and dynamic sequential spreads. Le Large’s illustrations enhance understanding and make a hard subject more accessible and engaging.